tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2596537926076148997.post5133205351533519252..comments2023-10-19T13:52:27.133+02:00Comments on on the weight watch: it's thursday, and i'm angry.carohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607905495206225133noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2596537926076148997.post-40410035543913784512009-12-04T11:30:06.380+01:002009-12-04T11:30:06.380+01:00thanks for the heads up, ladies
just after i'...thanks for the heads up, ladies<br /><br />just after i'd typed my little rant, the bf sent me an email telling me he was unhappy about all this as well. good, good.<br /><br />also found out that his daughter (who's the one person in all this i really really really want to have a good relationship with) is all weirded out by n.'s visit as well. she's coming for a visit to see us the weekend after this one, so all's good on the front that really matters.<br /><br />i've really calmed down now: all of that is not my business, really. the relationships i need to keep in order (and the ones i can control) are mine. everyone else's? are none of my business.<br /><br />this just goes to show that i need to continue to be hyper-vigilant when it comes to my relationship with l. - because not having one with her is not an option, too bad that relaxing a bit about it obviously isn't either (as long as she's hanging out with someone who's so shitty to the bf and me).<br /><br />anyway.<br /><br />thanks again, you two. it's all much better today!carohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607905495206225133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2596537926076148997.post-53403286351697831692009-12-03T19:56:40.518+01:002009-12-03T19:56:40.518+01:00I think you are 100% justfied in being angry and f...I think you are 100% justfied in being angry and frustrated. It sounds like something right out of a soap opera.<br /><br />I've been in similiar experiences where I try to help/support someone that I know will be hurt by the situation they are in, but they just can't see it. It's so hard.<br /><br />I admire your concern and caring. Have you spoken to bf about the whole situation?Diane, Fit to the Finishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03563578757721307599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2596537926076148997.post-40715430884929706502009-12-03T17:20:16.103+01:002009-12-03T17:20:16.103+01:00oh man... i feel for you comrade. hug hug! it is h...oh man... i feel for you comrade. hug hug! it is hard when you are trying to help people that don't necessary want to help themselves and/or are in denial. there is only so much you can do for someone. don't forget to think about YOU and that blurry line between helping someone and totally making their shitty problems YOUR shitty problems.Shaunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17972771695771196585noreply@blogger.com